In the space of 6 threads I received two emails with MDN tags.
Previous attempts tended to result in the mail server responding to the author of the message when it stuck the email in the user's inbox. Or in really bad cases when some *random* mail server in the delivery chain delivered the message according to its delivery rule.
In Mozilla Mail MDNs as of late may would pop up *before* the message loaded, that is over the *previous* message body (IIRC the envelope is for the MDN message but the message body is still the previous message).
[Action: clicks message, requesting to well... see the message]
[Note: Mozilla asks for permission before actually showing the user the message, which is out of order according to the timeline]
minorproblem there, but what's the bigger problem?
Well, the dialog appears before you read the email so like the older return receipts which would be sent long before the user got the email, the MDN doesn't actually indicate that the user read (past tense) the message, just that the user might read the message. Now, it's true that most people don't care about such a distinction.
Well, MDN has this unfortunate tendency of not being cleared when email is propagated by list-serves.
MDNs SHOULD NOT be sent automatically if the address in the Disposition-Notification-To header differs from the address in the Return-Path header (see RFC 822 [2]).
I haven't tested this part of the RFC on Mozilla Mail but I did ask an AOL QA who had a NSCP email address to try sending an email with a from of @netscape.com, I believe that the from line was rewritten to the QA's cannonical AOL account while the DNT was not.
So the DNT was @netscape.com and I believe that the Return-Path did not include @netscape.com.
IMO the biggest concern is that spam include DNT headers. However, while the possibility of MDNs being forged is mentioned and the ability for an MDN to disclose confidential network topology is mentioned, the ability of a spammer to confirm your email address is not mentioned. How nice.
Are there other choices? yes. Read on :)